WHATEVER HAPPENS, I AM READY!
by Joe Evans
Dr. Alan Freedman diagnosed me with Polycythemia Vera in 1997. My first question to him was, “How long will I live?” Dr. Freedman told me that I will have a normal lifespan once my blood counts get under control. I did not pay much attention to anything else he said.
My wife, Bonnie, asked all the questions and did all the research. I left the treatment decisions to them. The decision was made that I would take Intron-A injections given by Bonnie. Bonnie wanted to stay away from Hydroxyurea since she had read that there was a 10% chance of leukemia in 10-12 years.
Intron-A made me miserable with flu-like symptoms even with taking Tylenol. I stuck it out for six months when I got sick and tired of being sick and tired. I’d rather take Hydroxerea and have a better quality of life. I would take my chances that in ten years I could get leukemia. My quality of life was excellent and my counts got under control. I got to a point where my plebebotomies were once every six months. On a regular basis I would ask Dr. Freedman, “How much time do I have left?’ The answer was I would have a normal lifespan.
In 1999 I started to go to church with Bonnie on a regular basis which slowly developed my faith in God that whatever happens He would guide us. Going to church helped me cope with the disease especially with Bonnie by my side being my caregiver and advocate.
In 2008, we both retired and two months later, my disease
had progressed to Myelofibrosis. I was sicker and exhausted. My quality of life started to go downhill again. I had read that I had only 3-5 years to live. Bonnie was affected more than I was since she studied the material available. Dr. Freedman had researched my options while we were in Southern Africa. He contacted Dr. Verstosvek at M D Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, Texas who recommended that I go into the Incyte (Ruxolitinib) trial. Dr Verstosvek told me that my quality of life would improve with Incyte but it would not cure the disease. I asked him that dreaded question again, “How long do I have to live?” He shrugged his shoulders and smiled. He had no idea.
Incyte was successful for me. It enabled me to travel the world for three years with Bonnie. I was living and I was enjoying myself.
On October 12, 2010, my mortality hit me hard again. It hit Bonnie even harder when I was diagnosed with Mantle Cell Lymphoma, a rare aggressive form of Non-Hodgkin’s. I was admitted to MDACC immediately since I was in great danger. It was possible that I would not be around much longer. I got great support from my family, friends and church. I knew I had to fight as hard as one could fight to save my life. My faith became stronger. My life was in God’s hands and He was directing the miracles that happen at M D Anderson Cancer Center.
There were so many inspirational moments. With Bonnie at my side, there was no way that I would not try to do everything I could to keep living. In June 2011 I was declared in remission from Mantle Cell Lymphoma. In July I was allowed back on the Incyte trial since I was through with chemotherapy.
By the grace of God I am now 69 years old. I am living my life to the fullest every extended minute with exotic travels around the world to places that were on my bucket list. I know the Mantle Cell Lymphoma will eventually come back but I will fight it until I cannot fight any more. Perhaps the Myelofibrosis will be my demise but it is not going to stop me enjoying life. The time will come when it will be all over. I am at peace with God and my life.
Whatever happens, I am ready! What a grand life I have had. I have loved and won so many times.
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Comments on: "Whatever happens, I’m ready." (6)
I am honored to have been with you at such a difficult time with Joe. I always enjoyed visiting him and I treasured his sense of humor. He was a true southern gentleman who is greatly missed.
Joe, in 2013, I remember you sent us to the airport with your red pick up, you took us around Atlanta city, we were sitting on the same raw on the Sunday preaching at your church, we had lunch at your favorite Chinese restaurant not realizing that you were in that stage. You didn’t talk much but your body language made us felt very comfortable being stranger at your home.
Zhen sent me the link to this article today and what a gift it was to read this especially since Joe passed away August 31, 2015. His immune system just so shot that his body shut down. The BMB did show some Mantke Cells in the bone marrow. The three months prior to his passing was like a vicious roller coaster out of control. Joe is at peace now and I miss him so very much but he wanted me to continue to enjoy life to the fullest. He died at home with his family. He was ready to go to the other side as he stated.
Loved hearing from your perspective Joe… And I am armchair traveling with you two lovebirds … Keep on keeping on and enjoying a very full life. with Bonnie by your side you’ve got every advantage going for you!!!
What an uplifting message. Holding you in thought and prayer.
We hear so much from Bonnie it is nice to hear from you. Thanks.